The comfort of having a friend may be taken away, but not that of having had one – Seneca
When the time comes and our loved ones part from us, what would be the best state for us to be in? I believe it to be a state in which we have no regrets. A state where we are proud of how much meaning we gave to their lives and how much they gave back. A state in which we believe they smiled, thinking of our time together as they passed. So how do we make that goal more likely?
We pause before we speak and act and ask ourselves 'Will I regret saying/doing this?'. We plan and attend events that will create memories. We take in as much as we can when we are with loved ones, the sights, sounds, smells ect. We make sure that regardless of what happened, you both leave every situation happy. People don't remember specifics, but they do remember how you made them feel, make them feel great.
Task
1. Who's deaths would have the biggest impact on you? Why?
We pause before we speak and act and ask ourselves 'Will I regret saying/doing this?'. We plan and attend events that will create memories. We take in as much as we can when we are with loved ones, the sights, sounds, smells ect. We make sure that regardless of what happened, you both leave every situation happy. People don't remember specifics, but they do remember how you made them feel, make them feel great.
Task
1. Who's deaths would have the biggest impact on you? Why?
2. What can you do this month to create new memories?
3. How can you leave every situation happy?
3. How can you leave every situation happy?
4. How can you make amends for any regrets you currently have?
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